First meetings

I am always surprised at how conflicted the emotions of the women I date are when first we meet. I am completely honest and hold nothing back, tho I never let on as to how I feel about them. I am philosophical, humorous and serving them with no agenda but to be known and to get to know them (with the obvious intention to find common attraction and understanding as to a future in marriage etc.) I can give many compliments when I am sure of how I feel towards them wether as a friend or as more but they seem to struggle with complete honesty. Not everyone who likes me is liked by me and vice versa so one would think honesty as the only way to build into a relationship or let the other person move on and find what will work for them. Besides which the 5 stages are 1 meeting 2 dating 3 courting 4 engagement 5 marriage so chill out have fun and we will see where this can go!